if you're feeling pressure, this is for you

If you're feeling a lot of pressure right now, I need to tell you something: It doesn't belong to you.

It's in the energy of the culture. It's in the hustle. It's in the urgency. It's in the scarcity.

It's not in you. It's not of you. It's on you--like a t-shirt.

You, beautiful soul, are feeling and amplifying society's pressure and taking it on as your own. This is especially true for you if your crown (the top triangle in your chart) and/or your root (the bottom square in your chart) is white.

You can use pressure all you want. It can be really helpful in emergencies. For instance, if you're running late for a flight, pressure will get you there before they close the doors. If you need to pick up a car to save a baby, pressure will give you the superhuman strength to save the day. But using pressure on the daily will burn you the F out.

Besides, there's another way: Follow your desire.

While pressure feels heavy, desire and drive feel good.

Pressure is icky. Desire and drive are divine.

I mean that literally. Your desires and the things that drive you are gifts from the universe. Your soul chose these gifts for you to make sure you have everything you need to do the work you're here to do.

Breathe, beloved human, breathe.

Come back into your body and listen to the wisdom that lives within you.

You are here to create magic in your own completely unique way.

So, please stop trying to micromanage the universe. I can tell you from experience that it doesn't work. It'll just make you tired, frustrated, angry, bitter or disappointed. 

Allow your desires to guide you. Allow your drive to lead you. Allow the universe to show you the way.

I know this is wicked hard. It's a practice--one I'm not sure I'll ever master. This human experience is all about forgetting and remembering and then forgetting and remembering again. And again. And again.

You're doing great. Just stay with it.

I love you.

Love,
Kelsey

P.S. I made a new meditation to help you practice allowing. It's part of my meditation library, which you can access here. One listener has called it "a healing balm."

P.P.S. If you want to go deeper in this work, join me for a one-on-one session, either a Private Session or a Human Design Reading. This is the sacred work that truly lights me up. This is where I help you relax into your true essence so you can experience more ease, abundance and joy.

P.P.P.S. This week's episode of The Find Your Awesome Podcast is a solo ramble from me all about allowing, recognizing who I am right now vs. who past me thought I might be, and following personal karma. Listen here (and on Apple Podcasts and Spotify). 

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