I've noticed a common upper limit in my clients

You hear me say this a lot: upper limit. 

 

But what the heck is an upper limit?

 

It was first coined by Gay Hendricks in his book, “The Big Leap.

 

My take? It's when your desire and your beliefs don't match. In other words, you want something really badly, but there's some part of you that doubts that you can have it.

 

I've noticed a common upper limit in my clients. It looks like this:

 

They're living in alignment with their soul blueprint, following their strategy and authority and feeling so good and then...EEEEKKK! They hit that upper limit and wonder, "Am I allowed to be this sparkly? Am I allowed to feel this good? Is my life allowed to be this awesome? Am I too much for people?"

 

Yes, you're allowed to be this sparkly--you're supposed to be this sparkly!

Yes, you're allowed to feel this good. Feeling good is the point!

Yes, your life is allowed to be this awesome! By living your awesome life, you inspire others to do the same. And your being "too much" for people has nothing to do with you.

 

Remember: What I say is about me. What you hear is about you. And what you say is about you and what I hear is about me.

 

Here's a fun way to remind yourself that you DO deserve everything amazing happening for you.

 

Find some sparkly post-it notes or a white board or whatever lights you up and write these facts down:

 

“I am allowed to show up fully.”

“I am allowed to have a great day.”

“I am allowed to be amazing.”

 

And add your own!

 

What else goes on that list? What else are you allowed to do? What other emotions are you allowed to feel?

 

Oh, add this one too: I am allowed to do life in my own completely unique way.

 

Not sure exactly where to start, or what exactly you're meant to do now? I've opened up 90 minute 1:1 Human Design Readings! In these deep dives, you'll learn what alignment with your unique soul blueprint looks like for you.

 

Book your reading here! 

 

I love you.

Love,

Kelsey

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