Knowing "Not this" is the first step. The universe will take care of the rest.
We lived in Maine for ten years. We loved Maine. We still love Maine. AND about eight years into our time there, we started thinking it would be cool if the weather (and the ocean) were a bit warmer.
And then one wintery day, I was running outside when it was negative-something-silly degrees. I was wearing a wool hat, fleece mittens, two (or maybe three) pairs of tights, and I don't know how many top layers. My eyelashes were icicles. My nose was running. And I was grateful for the soft fleece of my mittens every time I wiped my nose.
But then something changed. At some point mid-run, I wiped my nose on my mitten. As I kept on running, I caught the sight of something red out of the corner of my eye. There was blood on my mitten. It was my blood. I had just cut my nose on the snot that had frozen to the backsof my soft, fleecy mitten. Frozen snot. And, my nose was so cold, I didn't even feel it happen. And that's when I knew: NOT THIS.
We've been conditioned to tolerate so much stuff that we don't love. In the Northeast, it's a sign of strength to be able to handle the cold weather. In some families, working so hard that you burn the candle at both ends is celebrated. "Busy is good," they say.
What. The. Actual. Fuck?
No. No, you are not here to work yourself into the ground. No, you aren't here to tough it out just because you can. No, you aren't here to put up with stuff you don't enjoy. No. No. No.
Now, back to the frozen snot. The "Not This" that came from that run led to one of the most magical adventures of my life so far: We sold our house in Maine, put our stuff in storage and traveled around the country in a small camper for 16 months before we decided to pause in Florida.
Knowing "Not this" is the first step. The universe will take care of the rest. Those 16 months in the camper were glorious and filled with growth. I couldn't have scripted a better adventure.
So, what do you want to say "Not This" to? 4 WEEKS TO QUIT THE STUFF THAT ISN'T SERVING YOU starts on Sunday, April 11. We'll be clearing away the stuff we've been tolerating and welcoming in a whole lot of magic. Learn all about it and join the movement here.
I love you.
Love,
Kelsey
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